Bad news for Chad Ochocinco -- Lozada says there's NO WAY IN HELL he'll be invited to her upcoming wedding to MLB superstar Carl Crawford.
"I don't give a s***," Lozada says ... "It happened 4 years ago. It is what it is. I'm happy, everybody's moved on with their lives, right? Why be angry? I totally forgive. It's all good."
As for Johnson, the ex-NFL star pled no contest to domestic battery for the incident ... and was sentenced to 1 year probation. He has since apologized to Lozada.