Breakups

Josh Murray and Amanda Stanton split after he ditched her at a concert ... and it was the straw that broke the camel's back, TMZ has learned.

The incident went down earlier this month when the "Bachelor in Paradise" stars attended Jingle Ball at Staples Center with a few 'BiP' co-stars.

Sources close to Amanda say co-star Ashley Iaconetti brought up a Lake Tahoe trip Ashley and Amanda had taken. Ashley brought up drinking during the trip and that's when Josh snapped at Amanda and accused her of lying to him about not drinking.

Sources close to Josh, however, say their fight was about something "nasty" Amanda whispered in his ear that Josh felt disrespected him.

Josh ultimately left Amanda at the concert area and waited outside the venue. They broke up the next day.

Josh and Amanda -- 1 of 3 couples engaged a few months ago on 'BiP' -- hung out a couple times after the breakup but the relationship was never revived. Josh has since moved back to Atlanta.

Tarek and Christina El Moussa will have to divide the spoils of their marriage by land and by sea, because there's a badass boat on the line.

The "Flip or Flop" stars own a 2015 Sea Ray Sundancer 510 yacht. The 50 foot, 33 ton beauty sleeps 6-8 and is docked in Newport Beach, CA.

We're told the yacht's worth well over a mil, which constitutes a huge piece of the pie in their almost certain divorce. Selling it will be the second happiest day of their lives.

Blac Chyna's split with Rob Kardashian definitely won't stop her from making money like she's still a part of the famous family.

Sources in Vegas tell us BC just booked her first post-baby club appearance ... and it's at 1OAK, the same spot the Kardashian family pretty much calls home when they're in Sin City.

You'll remember, Kourtney and Khloe celebrated Scott's birthday there this year, and even momager Kris Jenner played host for her big 5-9.

It's worth noting, Chyna's using her own name for the appearance because there's still that nasty battle going on for the trademark of the Kardashian name.

As we reported Saturday, Chyna left Rob high and dry, taking their one-month-old baby with her.

Rob Kardashian says Blac Chyna left him ... and she took Dream with her.

Rob just posted a few videos showing empty rooms in his house, he says the rooms were fully furnished for Dream and King, Chyna's son with Tyga. An obviously upset Rob also toured his house in a strange string of videos showing off his Christmas decorations.

As we reported ... Chyna's Instagram was hacked earlier Saturday revealing an alleged plan to leave Rob after gaining the Kardashian name and fighting for the trademark.

Rob posted a message on his Instagram account, saying, "I loved every inch of that woman and loved everything that came with her. I truly loved Angela. I gave everything I owned for her. Didn't know I was just part of her plan. I really believed she was in love with me the way that I was with her and I am so hurt and never felt this before."

In a post on her own page, Chyna says, "I have done nothing but help & loved him from the beginning! It's Chy here i got my own!!! I was doing swell before I got with him! I got him out of Khloe's house, helped him lose all that f***ing weight for him to do nothing & gain it all back! Rob asked for all of this!"

Chyna also mentions Rob's been able to come and see Dream but hasn't.

Apparently nannies are just too irresistible, because Tarek El Moussa is the latest to get the bug.

We've learned Tarek hooked up with 23-year-old Alyssa Logan, who was taking care of Tarek and Christina's 2 kids and also performing assistant chores.

It's not scandalous like Ben Affleck, Jude Law or Gavin Rossdale. We've learned Tarek and Alyssa began dating in Sept., 4 months after he and Christina separated.

Sources connected with Tarek and Christina tell us ... when Tarek began having feelings for Alyssa, he was warned NOT to date her while she was still an employee. So he essentially canned her, which cleared the way for a romantic relationship.

The video (above) shows Tarek and Alyssa at a Florida Georgia Line concert back in October. Sadly, it didn't last. They broke up later that month.

As we reported, we're told there's still a chance Tarek and Christina will get back together, but we wouldn't put money on it.

"Flip or Flop" stars Tarek and Christina El Moussa's marriage hasn't totally flopped just yet -- we're told they're still trying to work things out for the sake of their family.

Sources close to the couple tell TMZ ... Tarek and Christina have been speaking lately about making an effort to resolve their issues. Aside from that video we got of them attempting (and failing) to appear civil -- we're told they really are concerned about doing what's best for their 2 young kids and their family as a whole.

We're told they'll continue to work on 'FoF' together, but also have projects of their own in the works.

Our sources say it's no guarantee, but the estranged couple ain't fully throwin' in the towel yet.

"Flip or Flop" stars Tarek and Christina El Moussa won't win an Oscar for faking affection, because a Starbucks outing that ends with a hug is as transparent as it gets.

The former couple were in Newport Beach Thursday, near where Tarek now lives, and walked awkwardly together into the java hut.

It's the goodbye that you gotta see. So staged.

As we reported, Tarek and Christina want to continue shooting their show, despite their breakup -- thus the photo op.

They gotta do better than this.

Jay Mohr and wife Nikki Cox are off again, because he's filed for divorce for the second time.

Mohr had filed to end his 10 year marriage in July but withdrew the petition 6 days later, telling TMZ, he and Nikki were "Very in love. Very happy and that's really all there is."

Things apparently took a turn for the worse, because he filed Tuesday citing irreconcilable differences. This time around Jay wants joint legal and physical custody of their 5-year-old son. He also says they have a prenup that spells out all the financials.

After filing the first time Jay asked for an emergency order for full custody, claiming their child was at risk because of Nikki's alleged drug and depression problem.

John Mayer celebrated Taylor Swift's birthday not by throwing a party, but by throwing MAJOR shade her way.

John tweeted a not-so-subtle diss at his ex Tuesday -- her 27th born day -- calling it "the lamest day of the year." He pulled the classic post-and-delete ... which only makes it more obvious it was a shot at Taylor.

Dear John clearly still has some bad blood with T Swift.

On a happier note -- happy birthday, Taylor? Belatedly.

Christina El Moussa's marital status is complicated, to say the least, which explains why the "Flip or Flop" star is going out of her way to keep her wedding ring a mystery.

Paps got Christina out shopping Tuesday in the OC -- the first time we've seen her since TMZ broke the story about her separation from Tarek. She was rockin' freshly bleached roots, running errands and looking pretty carefree. As her shirt says, "Pink champagne can't complain."

She kept her left hand under wraps though ... so, it's unclear if she's still wearing a wedding band.

As we reported, Christina and Tarek are separating after what they call a "misunderstanding." Witnesses called it Tarek taking off into the woods with a gun ... causing a suicide scare.

As we reported ... the show will go on, and the former couple will keep working together. For now.

The wife of Broncos star Emmanuel Sanders is pulling the plug on their brief marriage, despite the fact she's about to give birth to their 2nd child any day ... TMZ Sports has learned.

Gabriella Sanders -- who is due this month -- filed divorce docs in Texas at the end of October, a few days before the couple's 3 year wedding anniversary.

According to the court docs, GS says "the marriage has become insupportable because of discord or conflict of personalities," but doesn't say exactly what caused the split.

It doesn't seem pretty, cause the judge gave Gabriella a temporary restraining order to keep the wide receiver away from her and their Texas home until further notice.

The judge did give the NFLer "limited access" to their 2-year-old son and future daughter.

In the docs, Gabriella's also asking for child support and a "disproportionate share" of their assets, because she says the divorce is Emmanuel's fault.

We reached out to his camp, but they had no comment at this time.

1:50 PM PT -- Gabriella had their baby girl Tuesday afternoon, and Emmanuel was there in the delivery room. He posted a pic which makes it seem like they buried their differences, at least for today.

Tarek and Christina El Moussa will still have to grin and bear seeing each other's faces after their separation -- HGTV's decided to keep shooting "Flip or Flop" with both of them.

TMZ broke the story ... the El Moussas separated after a bizarre incident earlier this year where Tarek bolted from their house with a gun, and Christina feared he was going to kill himself.

Producers must think the tension will make for a better show. HGTV tells us they "will continue production as scheduled" when it comes time to shoot season 8 of the reality show.

Sources close to production tell us the plan is keep showing them working together but, admittedly, no one knows if it's going to work. Season 7 is currently airing.

It's unclear if any of the drama leading up to their split will be featured on the show.

"Flip or Flop" stars Tarek and Christina El Moussa portray the chipper, nearly perfect all-American couple on TV but we've learned they're now separated ...after a scary incident involving guns and a feared suicide attempt.

Their ordeal started, at least publicly, in May when deputies responded to "a call of a possibly suicidal male with a gun" at the couple's Orange County home. According to law enforcement, a massive presence showed up -- 11 deputies and a helicopter.

Witnesses told cops they saw Tarek grab a gun from his safe, run out the back door and flee down a hiking trail. Shortly after, Christina was seen running out of the house crying and shaking.

Within minutes, the helicopter spotted Tarek on a trail and deputies told him to drop his weapon. Tarek complied and told deputies he had no intention of hurting himself. He said he wanted to "blow off some steam," and only brought the gun for mountain lions and rattlesnakes.

Deputies went back to the house and ended up seizing 5 guns, including an AR-15.

Christina and Tarek tell us they decided to separate while they reevaluate their marriage. As far as the incident goes ... they'll only say it was an "unfortunate misunderstanding."

They add ... they're committed to co-parenting, and ... "will continue to work through this process civilly and cooperatively, and plan to continue our professional life together."

Apollo Nida refuses to accept his divorce from Phaedra Parks is a done deal, and his reason -- spelling counts.

Apollo points out his ex's legal name is Phaedra Parks Nida, but in her divorce docs it's spelled "Nita" -- ditto for the spelling of his name in those docs.

He's now filed a motion to vacate her divorce, but not only due to the typos. In the motion, obtained by TMZ, Apollo says the 'RHOA' star took advantage of the fact he's in prison. He says there was a final hearing in July, but he was never notified of it ... and therefore, the divorce should be thrown out.

TMZ broke the story ... Phaedra's unsealed docs appear to back her claim she's been single since July, but if a judge buys Apollo's side of the story ... they could be back to square one.

Let's not forget ... Apollo filed his own divorce docs.

Sia and Erik Lang are headed for splitsville -- they're breaking up after a short 2 year marriage.

The couple tells TMZ that "after much soul searching and consideration we have made the decision to separate as a couple. We are, however, dedicated to remaining friends."

The couple moved things pretty fast ... announcing their engagement back in June of 2014, and then tying the knot just 2 months later.

Sorry Little Monsters, Lady Gaga and ex-fiance Taylor Kinney are not back together -- despite a pic of him with her mom -- the exes are just doing the conscious uncoupling thing.

Gaga and Kinney called it quits in July after 5 years together, so fans freaked when he showed up on Gaga's Instagram this week. Sources tell us they still have a great relationship and talk from time to time.

Kinney happened to be in NYC and found out Gaga's Born This Way Foundation was doing the Shared Kindness event at 30 Rock. Gaga's in Europe but her mom, Cynthia, helps run the foundation and Taylor offered to help her out.

Gaga was moved enough to post the pic of them at the fundraiser.