Dating

Jennifer Lopez and Alex Rodriguez are going to be together for a very loooong time -- if opposite wardrobes attract.

J-Rod stepped out for a dinner date in Miami Thursday night, and J Lo made sure to showcase her dancer's legs in a BIG way. A-Rod, on the other hand, was rocking his finest preppy dad threads.

BTW, they left from the same house, seconds apart ... still making sure to NOT be photographed next to each other. Probably a good idea for Alex.

"The Bachelorette" will offer Rachel Lindsay clear choices ... if race is a factor.

The photo was snapped behind the scenes on the first night of taping, showing about 14 contestants, and there is a mix ... but looks like she's trending black.

It's pretty clear from the finale of "The Bachelor" ... producers are going to make race a central story line ... looks like mission accomplished.

Rapper PnB Rock's down to pull the robbery on Tyga ... he's obsessed with Kylie Jenner.

PnB was at LAX Tuesday spittin' game at Kylie and clearly he couldn't care less she's with Tyga.

Pretty clear PnB's got no shame in his game and he insists Tyga would understand cause he knows how the game's played.

Then he spits a line from his "Selfish" track ... dedicated to Kylie, of course.

Ex-'Bachelor' Ben Higgins is crossing his fingers ... hoping the new 'Bachelorette' does not get racial.

Ben's reacting to one of Rachel Lindsay's suitors, who blurted out this week, I'm ready to go black, and I'm never going to go back."

We got Ben leaving Barton G. in L.A. where he as much as said it was a bonehead statement.

Ben believes you can find love on the show and apparently, he did. He and his final rose from season 20, Lauren B., are still going strong.

Right after Nick Viall's 'Bachelor' season wrapped, Rachel Lindsay's 'Bachelorette' season began -- and one of her suitors is already getting racial.

Rachel -- the first black Bachelorette or Bachelor -- met her contestants after Monday's finale, and a white guy named Dean decided he wanted to let her know he's down with interracial dating, but watch ... he wasn't nearly that smooth about it.

The teenager Casey Affleck watched over in this year's Oscar-nominated "Manchester by the Sea" had 2 girlfriends in the film ... but uncertain if that translates to real life.

We got Lucas Hedges -- who was nominated for Best Supporting Actor -- who tells our photog he can't really measure his love life in the wake of his hit movie quite yet. Something about how he's not a normal 20-year-old anymore ... whodathunkit?

He also speaks to the controversy over Casey winning Best Actor, despite being accused of sexual harassment by 2 women a few years ago. Sounds like Lucas has his back.

J Lo made it official -- she and A-Rod are banging, and she let the cat out of the bag by posting a pic with him ... possibly in bed.

She pulled the ole post and delete Sunday ... briefly putting the pic on her Instagram story. A-Rod's face is covered but that's him playfully palming her head. They were spotted together in the Bahamas this weekend on a romantic getaway.

Drake who?

Good news for 5 Seconds of Summer fans ... drummer Ashton Irwin might still be on the market.

We got Ashton leaving Delilah Saturday and asked him about the trolls who lit up his Instagram account after he posted a photo with YouTube star Alex Losey.

If you listen closely, Ashton gives fans carte blanche to keep hatin'.

It's a GREAT offseason for NY Giants wide receiver Sterling Shepard -- who's on a crazy trip to Africa with his model GF, Chanel Iman ... and the pictures are fire.

The Sphinx ... Morocco ... Zambia ... Tanzania ... the couple is hittin' all the dope spots.

They even had a run-in with Will Smith!!

It's good to be rich.

It's not often people turn down a chance to knock up a supermodel ... but NFL star Julian Edelman told Adriana Lima he's not ready for more kids and that was one of the main reasons they split.

Rae Sremmurd's Swae Lee isn't giving up on dating Malia Obama, and now he has a very specific plan to sweep her off her feet -- but he knows he'll have to get through Barack first.

The "Black Beatles" rapper was at LAX talking about his dream collabs -- in music and with Malia. Swae made a plea to us a few months ago for the then-First Daughter to holla at him, and it's clear he's been thinking about it ever since.

Swae broke down every detail of their first date, and he's already on cloud nine.

NBA star Chandler Parsons has a big fan in Bella Thorne ... they're not only going to see movies together, they also shared a kiss in Mexico.

Selena Gomez staked her claim on The Weeknd with a serious this-is-MY-bf kiss on his cheek ... which we're sure had nothing to do with you-know-who being in town too.

Selena packed on the PDA Tuesday after his concert in Paris. But the "Starboy" singer was also performing at Wednesday night's H&M fashion show, where his ex, Bella Hadid, was doing her model thing.

Potentially messy? Sure. But Weeknd belted out "Nothing Without You" as Bella and Gigi Hadid strutted, and there was no drama apparent to the naked eye.

For the record, Selena was NOT at the H&M show.

Nick Jonas knows a thing or two about winning a woman's heart ... and, apparently, the bowling date is right up his alley.

We got Nick Tuesday at LAX, and while he was fairly tight-lipped for a lot of questions ... he did open up for some crucial dating advice and insight into his game, love and otherwise.

Sounds like those Jonas boys can't miss.

Justin Bieber is in a race to the bottom ... but at least now he's got some attractive company.

Bieber took a 1-on-1 hike with his model friend, Ashley Moore, who seemed down to get physical with him in a friendly competition running on a canyon trail.

If there's one thing we know about Bieber ... he tends to open up in the wilderness. Bodes well for Ashley. Plus they've hung out before -- couple years ago at a Clippers game -- so, seems like they've got a connection.

If The Weeknd has any menage a trois fantasies ... this would be the time to let Selena Gomez know -- the couple's in Paris, and staying just a few minutes away from his ex, Bella Hadid.

Selena and The Weeknd were spotted chilling at their hotel -- which happens to be a convenient Parisian stroll away from the one where Bella's staying.

He's in town for a tour, and Bella's there for fashion stuff. We're guessing Selena's there because, well ... maybe she knew Bella was gonna be there.